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It’s time to Reclaim your power, Reconstruct your identity, and Realign with the woman you’re becoming. R³

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About Brenda

My work is rooted in a lifelong devotion to transformation.  My passion is in how people change, how they reclaim their power, and how they step out of unconscious patterns into clarity and self-trust. For over twenty years, I’ve built and led service-based businesses while walking alongside founders, leaders, and visionaries as they navigate identity shifts, decision-making, and the deeper inner work required to live and lead from truth rather than conditioning.

I’ve founded and scaled multiple organizations, including a retreat and event center created as a sanctuary for profound personal and collective transformation. These spaces were designed not just to host people, but to hold them, supporting moments of insight, release, and reorientation where old narratives dissolve and new ways of being emerge. My role has always bridged the practical and the mystical: stewarding operations, systems, and teams while facilitating experiences that catalyze lasting inner change.

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At the heart of my work is spiritual psychology.  Understanding that behavior follows belief, and belief follows perception: using emotions as our guides, people can change or phase into becoming themselves again. I guide people to recognize where they are looping in inherited patterns, emotional reactions, or false identities, and to reconnect with their own inner authority. Through coaching, retreats, and workshops, I support individuals in restoring trust in themselves, making aligned decisions, and embodying sovereignty in both life and business.

I specialize in folks who feel like failing forward is a pattern.

My background in spiritual psychology, transformational coaching, and somatic modalities informs a grounded yet intuitive approach. One that honors both structure and spirit. Ultimately, my work is about helping people remember who they are beneath the noise, reclaim their power with grace, and live from a place of clarity, courage, and conscious choice.

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  • Working with Brenda completely transformed my life.

    Before we started, I felt lost and unfocused, constantly asking myself why I didn’t have what I wanted, even though I had tried so many programs on the law of attraction, spirituality, and Human Design. It felt like I was stuck in a loop—wanting, but never having.

    That became my comfort zone, something I unknowingly identified with. But Brenda helped me break that cycle. She guided me to discover not only my true purpose but also how to reconnect with my heart—not the one wounded by past hurts, and not for the sake of impressing others, but my true heart.

    Through her support, I’ve gained clarity on who I am becoming and what it feels like to be confident. I’ve stepped out of my old comfort zone and into a new, empowered version of myself. As a bonus, I’ve also overcome several physical issues that were holding me back from feeling the vitality and freedom I now experience daily. Brenda’s guidance has been life-changing!"

    ~Kathy L. 

  • The Best Thing I Ever Did for Myself

    I'd experienced quite a bit of personal loss and trauma over the past several years. I felt "closed up", like I couldn't listen with my heart anymore.

    Ever since I was a child, I wanted to visit Vermont, so the location of this retreat was ideal. This retreat offered me the chance to regain (positive) elements of myself that I thought I'd lost. My favorite aspect of the retreat was Brenda's sensitive attention to detail, without being the least bit rigid.

    I realized that I hadn't lost my ability to listen with my heart, after all. I received a much-needed reminder that simply being myself deeply honors God.

    I felt utterly pampered! Those who guided my journey were all so talented - Brenda, Felicia, and Britt all deserve nothing but praise. They were great!!!

    ~ Kim A.

  • Life-Altering Experience

    Brenda was great right from the start. Communication was easy, and she was highly responsive before booking.

    I wish I could find the words to truly define my experience. For me, it was life-changing. I started doing some self-work before arriving, but between that and the weekend with Brenda, I’m on an internal path I didn’t expect to be on and love.

    I have a calmness internally that didn't exist before my retreat.

    ~Carly F

  • The Encyclopedia of Knowledge Woven into a Personal Path of Healing

    Brenda Stoeke (a WAAF member) has woven encyclopedias of experience and background in the areas you are looking for support. She is an excellent tracker of threads and is able to weave seemingly desperate threads together to reveal the pattern beneath. From Human Design and Gene Keys to German New medicine, Emotion Code and so much more, she is definitely a grounded, no BS presence.

    ~ Delphine

  • Wonderful Experience, Get Ready for Personal Growth and Renewal!

    A retreat can really let you unplug and focus on personal growth.

    After the retreat I felt renewed, rested and like I had some personal breakthroughs that helped me better understand myself and my interactions with others.

    Brenda is really talented in Human Design, but also in combining that knowledge with many other modalities. We did daily meditations and soundbaths, walks in the woods, journal prompts and great coaching using her vast background in psychology and wellness. ~ SA

  • One Healing Session

     I am a firm believer in self-healing and Brenda provided me a wonderful tool to access my own energy, allowing it to travel through my physical body working and through my chakras.  I felt energized after the session.  The circulation problems in my fingers have been healed and the pain in the heal of my foot is gone.  Thank you for this gift of enlightenment. 

     ~ Lisa B.

    I came into my session with hip pain that was immediately gone after the session.   I have found I am less reactive and am more clear in dealing with upsetting family matters.  Especially around the holidays, this has been a blessing for me and all of my family.

    ~Amber E.

  • Revolutionary Change

    The steps I have taken to "fall" into Brenda's workshop have been a long one with several life coaches and workshops. Prior to the retreat I felt "off", constantly searching for anything that would remove the sadness of not feeling like I have a purpose.
    The completion of the Revolutionary Retreat has taught me how to shift my awareness into the creator state. For the first time I actually feel joy and notice the shift unfolding before my eyes if I just be.
    The new person I have allowed myself to become from this amazing retreat has been with Brenda's continued support. Knowing now with ease and grace my life can continually unfold as I want to create it and realize that with resistance I get in my own way.
    Every moment grateful

    ~ D. P.